17 Helpful Tips For How To Make Him Want You

Find what you have in common and make use of it!  Interests are the foundation of many successful relationships, so this step should not be taken lightly.
 No matter what a hobby is, it could be as simple as his ability to quote lines from episodes of "Lucky Flower" or as intense as a passion for celestial physics - as long as it makes him see.  you are a close soul.
 For example, if you both love a certain genre of music, ask if he ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him.  Or if the band both likes to go to town, invite him to come with you.

6. Make Him Want You by getting to know his friends

Guys like their friends, so it is essential for any potential girlfriend to get along with them.  For this reason, it is well worth spending time getting to know his friends and showing them that you're a "cool girl".  This will make the guy see how easy you can get into his life - without hassle and drama.
 If you can have his friends as an ally, that's a big plus.  They will support you and mention you around your audience, even when you're not there.  This will make sure you stay on his mind.
 Be careful though.  You don't want to "flirt" with his friends.  This will generate conflicting signals and can make you look like a sullen person.

III. Make Him Want You by proceeding to the Next Step

1. Make Him Want You by Flirting

Once the two of you get to know and hang out together, you can move on to the next step.  Show your guy you're interested in getting above your friends level by flirting with him - that might be a signal he is looking forward to inviting you out.
 Smile.  Make sure to smile every time you see the guy - it lets him know you're happy to see him.  Even if he is in a group of people, give him your brightest smile.
 Eye contact.  Eye contact is an essential flirting technique.  One trick is to look at him from the other side of the room then when he sees you looking keep your gaze for a second before smiling and looking away.  He will bite.
 Body communication.  Another great flirting technique is to touch the guy in a way that is above the friend level.  Gently touch his hand when you talk, give him a hug when greeting, or mess his hair in a joke.  This will give him the "I'm interested" signal pretty quickly.

2. Make Him Want You by messaging him

If you have his number (if not, ask for it) you can text him about the day to let him know you're thinking about you.  You can send cheerful or flirty texts and if he texts you back like that, you know you're on the right track.
 For example, if he has an upcoming competition or test, you can text him good luck.  Hopefully he will find this sweet and appreciate that you missed it.
 However, you should also make sure not to overdo it… remember the rule: if you send two messages in a row without a reply, you should stop texting.  This requires reciprocity.

3. Make Him Want You by inviting him out

Make Him Want You by inviting him out / ph: pexels

If up until now the two of you have just been hanging out with friends or in formal contexts (like school or office), it might be time to invite him somewhere in private.  It doesn't have to be a full three-part dinner in an expensive restaurant, it could be as simple as going coffee or walking the mall.
 If he says yes, that's a pretty sure sign he's interested in you, or at least he's genuinely interested in having company.  See it as a positive signal and enjoy.  Try not to let things get awkward - you are just two friends having a good time together, right?
 If he says no, don't panic.  He may really have a different relationship, or he may feel awkward about hanging out with you alone.  Wait a moment, then try again.  If he says no a second time, you may have to deal with the fact that he is not interested.

4. Make Him Want You by telling him you're excited

 In the end, you just have to wait and hope.  Sometimes the best way is to frankly let him know you're interested and ask if he feels that way.  Whatever his reaction may be, at least it should be clear and you can move on in the relationship or move on to the next.
 Don't make rumors about guys inviting girls out.  The fact is that boys "like" strong, confident women who know what they want.  In fact, just having the courage to open an invitation is probably enough to impress a guy and get him to say yes.
 Never ask someone to invite a guy out for you.  It lacks maturity and increases the chances the guy will refuse.  Even if you're too shy to invite him in person, text or handwritten notes are much more effective than the "messing up friends" method.

5. Make Him Want You by being patient

These things take time.  You can't force someone to like you, and a push can ruin your understanding.  Give him some space and don't be haunted.  Let things go naturally, or if they fail, it's natural for things to happen.
 In the end, he will somehow tell you if he's interested in reciprocating your affection.  If he says no, don't hang around him like a silly stray.  Sometimes you might not get along in ways you don't notice, and sometimes the guy just isn't ready for a long term relationship.
 If this is true, don't waste time moving on to another relationship!  Don't take rejection too personally.  This happens to everyone at one time or another.
 There is a lot of fish in the ocean and as long as you have confidence in yourself, you know you are a good target and the guy for you is waiting somewhere out there.

6. Make Him Want You by paying attention to how he feels

Last, but not least, remember that you have no control over what others think and do.  He may be the subject of your interest, but it does not create any obligation that you must be an important part of his world.
 Turn around.  If a guy happens to be interested in you, is there anything he can do to "make" you like him?  The answer is probably not.
 The reality is that you will either like him that way, or not.  You will find him attractive or not.  You will find him funny or not.  All he can do is try to be the best he can be, and hope you accept it.
 The opposite is also true.  Be your own best role model, and let it grow from there, or not.

Above are 17 helpful tips for How To Make Him Want You by seducing him and still be himself. 
Let follow them wisely and never forget to smile.  It's a safe, traditional way to invite a guy to be social.  Plus it's completely free and instantly adds value to your face!  (By the way, be sure to brush your teeth regularly to make them white and shiny!)
 Even though people always say "be yourself", if you're a mean, rude girl and don't have many friends, try a different style.  Try to treat people better, take care of each other's feelings.  But don't be too good what make people start thinking you are fake.  This will take you far.
 If there are no signs that he is interested in you, it doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested.  Maybe he's just shy, or a little scared, especially if he hasn't dated anyone in a long time, or if it's the first time.  Be patient, but don't push him;  simply let him know the door is always open if he is bold enough to enter.
 Make sure he's single.  If you're trying to get the attention of a guy who already has a girlfriend and you know it, you're trespassing into another relationship, which isn't fair at all.  Only go after him if you know he doesn't have one.  Sometimes it is also common to see him run off equally while you are still in a relationship.  Guys like that often drift in life with a series of admiring women and at the same time bored behind.  They are known by most of us as 'playboys' and are called 'bastards' by ex-girlfriends.  "Stay away, stay away, stay away" is the only advice in this case.
 Don't make it obvious that you like him, this is girls' biggest mistake, that's when the perfect "good" guy can take advantage of you.
 Some people like to be friends first.  Others prefer to avoid the "just friends" territory.  Ideally you could be both a little bit both - a friend "and" a romantic interest.
 Don't tell a guy you are interested in other guys.  While you think that is how much of a "desired" expression you are, it shows you being superficial and easily pierced, this is not something a long term relationship seeker feels right.  Frankly speaking this is not a good tactic, but a good way to get rid of him.
 Note that some guys take a longer time to grow up than others ("Peter Pan" syndrome).  In this case, it is better not to wait and look for a guy who has made the decision to grow up.  You don't want to be someone else's standby mother.
 If he likes another girl and you know it, don't try to make him dislike her.  If he finds out what you are doing, he will never trust you again.  Instead, encourage him to date the girl.  If he dates her forever, then he obviously loves her and wants to be with her.  But the sooner they break up, the faster he forgets her and is ready to come to you!
 Boys like girls who have their own personality so be yourself!  Don't try to change yourself for a guy and make him like you for himself, not because he turned you into someone else.
 Be yourself, but don't be mean.  Be kind to the guy, but don't go too far by holding him or demanding.
 Look into his eyes.  If you look at the ground or at the ceiling, you may look nervous.

However, if your friends aren't mature people, it's best not to tell them about him.  They would immediately start staring at him and giggling in his presence.  They can even chat and so on.  No matter what you tell them, they'll look at him.  The worst scenario is when friends leave and start questioning him with countless questions mostly like 'What do you think about Hoa?'.  This will cause him to run away from sandals.
 Don't make it clear that you like him, or he won't take you seriously.  Take the time to get to know him first.
 Trying too hard to "get" someone to like you can turn into manipulation, something no one finds attractive or wants to be your goal.  Keep your mind open.  The lower class student always laughed when he saw that you could be that person in class, if your current goals are not very good.  Say like Maya Angelou about the Boy for you is "... hope for the best, be ready for the worst, and choose whatever is in between".  You will find him, and when he arrives, don't expect a horse and knight in shining armor, it will be a pickup or a Truong Hai.  He will never be perfect, but he is guaranteed to be a good choice.
 Try not to be obvious, meaning don't mention too much about yourself in the conversation.  While talking, don't be embarrassed to ask him some questions.  Be careful what you say, because saying wrongly leads to very awkward moments.
 Don't confuse kindness with him liking you.  It's sometimes hard to tell the difference, but pay attention and you will determine.  If you've just got out of a bad relationship, some guys, especially those older than you, take on the role of 'big brother'.  They see a relationship as purely pure, meaning that any romantic relationship will be ruined forever after.
 If you have told your friends about him and they are questioning him, firmly tell them to stop and if they don't listen, try to ignore them when they mention him during the conversation.  When the story involves him, ignore it because your friends are immature and you are more mature than that.  He'll love it when you don't act like an eight-year-old girl giggling like your friends.
 Never play brainstorming games or send out disturbances.  This confuses the guy and is highly likely to be humiliated.  It is not a sign of ingenuity - it is a sign of insecurity and lack of courage.
 If these steps are "too" effective and he moves forward too quickly, let him know he needs to slowly and don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.